A little bit of me

A new year has begun. At the beginning of the year, people usually write a list of ‘New Year’s Resolutions’, but most of the time, people forget about their resolutions until the very end of the year. Instead of creating resolutions that tend to be like bullet points on bucket lists, I’ve started doing self-reflection and self-realization regarding self-improvement as continuation and progress in my life.

I’m ready to focus on improving myself and my journey to being a licensed architect. In 2017, the number 1 thing I learned about myself was my ability to step out of my comfort zone. In 2018, the number 1 thing I improved on was being more open-mined and not letting anyone discourage me from chasing my dream. Now that it’s 2019, it’s time to reflect on what I should improve about myself throughout the year.

In 2019 —
1. Stop saying ‘Sorry…’ / apologizing during the most minor situations, when it’s not even my fault. Some situations are out of my control and I cannot always take the blame for everything.
2. Be more assertive and not be afraid to voice my opinions/thoughts that I believe can make an impact on the project. I am no longer a little girl or a fresh college graduate. I’m slowly upgrading roles and responsibilities, learning how to transform into a queen/madam.
3. Be consistent with my 2019 bullet journal and my self-reflection book.
4. Take time to breathe and not always be in a hurry. Slow down when going from one place to another place. Time is precious, but I must take care of my body first.
5. Focus on what I want and not let people (besides family members) be my priorities. I only have enough energy to handle myself. Be there for friends and acquaintances but mind my own business.

They’re general reminders and even if I’m not fully improved by the end of 2019, I still know I have made progress. The first step is always the most difficult, but acknowledging flaws and jotting down thoughts help make an easier process to change. So here’s to a new year. A new me. A new you. What will you be working on about yourself this year?